We transitioned from denying orgasms for a month at a time to permanent denial ten years later. My wife wants to raise the stakes and make me even hornier than I am now, planning to wean me off sex. She values intimacy as key to our emotional bond, so she’ll still give me about two kisses a month while fully clothed—no touching below my waist or under her clothes. It’s not too bad since we used to have sex once a week anyway; plus, I wore a hood back then that blocked sight and kissing while she squeezed one hand around my balls and held a vibrator with the other. My pain-induced moans triggered her climax, which always came quickly for her. She’d finish in three minutes or less before leaving my bedroom. Since I was locked during sex anyway, mostly just hearing her cum, it didn’t feel like losing much.
I’m curious if anyone else has experienced sexual denial while permanently chastity-bound? In my wife’s view, this is the ultimate step in our lifestyle: only kissing, no real intercourse. We’ve explored many fetishes over nearly fifty years and often push them to extremes. Without raising the bar, even exciting fantasies become routine and dulling. Do those of us with permanent orgasm denial reduce or increase sexual frequency? If you doubt my account, know that your skepticism doesn’t matter—I don’t even believe what we did! Still, it’s far better than being a human toilet.
Keywords: chastity, hood, vibrator, fetish, orgasm
