recovering faster with ruined orgasms to ease prostate congestion

Hey everyone, we began our chastity journey five years ago as a casual hobby. Lately, though, it seems my wife is taking it more seriously; she has set my release window between seven and ten days, but I suspect she intends to extend this eventually to around one month. Specifically, her main motivation appears to be that after releasing, I am not very keen on cuddling for a day or two. In fact, we have PIV sex almost every night starting from day #3. The issue is that we are slightly concerned about prostate congestion, so we want to avoid going too long without release. I wonder if introducing ruined orgasm might be an option. She has tried it with me several times before, but I haven’t noticed a significant difference in recovery time compared to a full release. Was the previous attempt not ‘ruined’ enough? Perhaps she stopped stimulating too late? I’ve watched web videos where men get five ruined shots; is that accurate? We aren’t fans of the prostate massage approach, so we lean toward ruined orgasm or simply extending the denial period. Do you have any experience with RO? Our goal isn’t to take multiple hits like in movies, but rather to empty the prostate and speed up my arousal recovery.