small strides and 'light chastity'

Hi everyone So, we had another chat the other day in the car. Before that, she mentioned she didn’t want to see the HT “right now” and I held back. I brought it up a bit hesitantly, but it went smoothly. After explaining things and pausing to ask for her opinions and thoughts, we wrapped up with “I think I can get behind this sort of kink”. So, that’s nice. We are going to do a little test starting the other night. We call it chastity lite, as there is no cage (she’s not ready for that) and it will be short times. We laid out some ground rules, such as: I prefer to keep the denial at a week or less for now, but it’s up to her we are on the honor system, and if i’m having issues, I’ll tell her no topping from the bottom, so to speak…she is in charge and her word is final. that goes for me coming before i’d like to, as well. if she wants it, no arguments, I come for her. she will decide the time. I don’t get to know when the “release” day is. that way, there are no expectations or disappointments if life gets in the way of play. we’ve had problems with this in the past with “kinky day” coming and going with no playtime, so we want to avoid that. we promise to talk about what’s going on and how we feel about it. Anyhow, I’m excited! This looks like a good start to me. We will see where it goes…