Tonight my wife is going to pleasure herself in her master suite (I’m locked out) and keep her phone handy. She doesn’t want me watching via FaceTime or Skype; she just wants me listening until she reaches her orgasm. This feels like a new experience for us. Back when we were younger, the internet wasn’t around, and making long-distance calls from Hong Kong was pricey, so we rarely did it then. I wish we had all these modern conveniences back then too. I used to find myself stuck in countries where they didn’t speak English much, though S&M commercials on German TV needed no translation—a whip cracking across the back is pretty self-explanatory.
These days you can see each other online. I’ve spotted a couple of devices that fit around your penis and vibrate remotely when your wife or girlfriend controls them over the internet. We are still getting used to this style of intimacy. Right now, I’m hunting for teasing ideas to bring some spark back into my chastity routine. I picked up 125 generic Viagra pills which we mostly use for teasing purposes like tonight. My cage is only about 1 1/4” long; it gets quite uncomfortable and occasionally painful when Mr. Tiny tries to get hard, so we play with that dynamic periodically. We are past the age for pegging, and my wife hasn’t allowed penetration in ages, so we need low-impact teasing techniques.
We already do the panty-wearing routine but want some creative suggestions—both tech-based and traditional—that aren’t just recycled from every corner of the web. I’m not looking for punishment/reward dynamics because those belong to our domestic discipline setup, and they hurt too much to be considered mere teasing. Other than that, I’m open to anything. Perhaps more phone sex variations or even Skype with video. My wife is a bit shy about turning on her camera; it stems from an incident where she accidentally sent one of our intimate clips (featuring me, her, and her girlfriend) along with all our home movies to my wife’s sister. She also once convinced her mom to pose nude since she has the body type of a 12-year-old girl but developed womanly curves; those photos still surface online occasionally. So she prefers voice-only for now, though I might be able to persuade her into video.
We’ve tried wheel-of-fortune and dice games before, but we aren’t really big on leaving things up to chance. What I’m after are strict teasing games. We have plenty of BDSM gear leftover from our younger years that just sits unused during chastity play. I was hoping someone here does unique things at home that you don’t always see discussed online. The last thing we tried involved me cleaning her vibrator, swapping in fresh batteries, and then going down on her until she pushed my head away to indicate she’d rather use the device herself. Then I licked it clean, washed it up, and put it back where it belongs. That’s exactly the kind of stuff I’m looking for. It got me hard, only for her to tell me I was inadequate afterward. Quite an interesting experience.
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