My partner and I have been withholding my orgasms over the past month, and it’s been fantastic. Even though I really want to wear a chastity device under her watch, I’ve managed well on my own and feel that wearing one might get in the way of our activities.
Things I hadn’t thought about much are staying dominant while using the cage (or at least being versatile) and practicing non-device denial. My next logical move is to talk with her about giving her more control over when I finally release, though I want to ensure that denial remains a key part of that process.
Here are some notes from this week: “We’re still doing lots of teasing without orgasms for me… my last one was on Wednesday morning. Since then, there’s been plenty of sex, hand jobs, blow jobs, and her reaching climax, but no release for me. She wants me to wait until after Sunday’s marathon before rewarding me. She’s really getting into it now, asking if I want to cum, then saying no, telling me I need to hold out, that I’ve been a good boy but must wait longer, and that she is going to climax while I cannot—life isn’t fair! Yesterday morning I woke her up for some play. She got on top of me, teasing me and telling me not to move. She would only insert the tip and make me beg for more. This lasted about 30-40 minutes before I flipped her over, holding her down as she struggled. With my legs pinned together, I slid in and fucked her for a while, asking if she could stop me. She kept moving around, and I slapped her face a couple of times; you could literally feel her pussy getting wetter. We had sex like this for over an hour, with her then begging for my cock and telling me how much of a slut I was to her. I stayed on the edge but didn’t cum, although I fucked until she came hard. Our dynamic is interesting because we both act as tops sometimes. I find this chastity/denial lifestyle pretty awesome. I know she’d love it if I cumeed, but she’s starting to enjoy the denial, and sex without orgasm is almost addictive. We literally had intense intercourse for 2-3 hours not long ago—that rarely happens when I’m allowed to cum. Being on the edge is so frustrating. You know you’re not permitted to cum, yet the pleasure is so intense that you want to keep going at it.” ”, “post_id”: 89602, “subject”: