Is anyone else missing out on penetrative intercourse?

“Anyone else stuck without a release?” has me curious about who might be missing out on PIV intercourse. I’ve been in this state for nine months now. Back when, my wife set down the law regarding any kink activities with friends: “I don’t need details on sex lives, just no STDs and keep someone else’s baby away.” Now, a partner from our kink circle resides here (she had recently lost her husband; they were close to us…and he was fine with our dynamic). Consequently, PIV is the exception rather than the rule. My wife adores dildos, so we got me a strap-on harness for regular use. She enjoys knowing I’ve been active sexually yet no longer penetrates her directly. We decided on wearing the strap-on constantly. That happened just over nine months ago. Since I have a denial fetish, this actually arouses me more than traditional sex…strange, right? Similar to orgasm denial and my recent use of a cock cage under chastity, it’s another love-hate dynamic that remains thrilling. Is anyone else in the same situation? We discuss using real intercourse during holidays, but we might just pack our toys instead. Who knows?