A ruined orgasm situation

So, back on New Years eve I was allowed out of my jailbird. My request was to be let out to tease me a little and then lock me back up. My wife suggested that she should let me inside her for just a minute and then please her in other ways and then be locked back up. Well, she (and I) was enjoying it so much she didn’t want me to pull out. We would slow down and stop but then start up again. This went on for a long time and we even switched positions to a couple of times. We ended up with her on top of me. It finally got to the point where I just couldn’t hold off any longer. I would tell her I was close and we would stop but each time it happened the interval got shorter and shorter. Finally I told her I had to stop but she didn’t want to. The next time we stopped I told her I think it is too late. Sure enough, a few seconds later while totally stopped I could feel myself ejaculate inside of her. It was absolutely the most amazing feeling. At the same time it felt great it was also incredibly frustrating. I wasn’t even sure at first if I actually came, it was hard to tell. The evidence definitely showed that I did. Neither of us was upset by it but we didn’t really know quite what to make of it either. Should this be considered an orgasm and we would then start a new cycle? My mind was telling me this was an “unauthorized” orgasm so we should start a new cycle. Should we treat this as a bump in the road and stick with our original schedule? My body definitely didn’t consider this an orgasm, I was making the case for it not counting and we would stick with our Jan 13th release date. It was /is a strange unanticipated situation to be in. It has left me a little confused and sometimes disappointed. I kind of want to just have a real orgasm sometime soon just to make a clean break. As it is I sometimes think I am on day 137 still, and other times on day 8. I know that in one sense it doesn’t really matter, just pick one and move forward. In another sense though I just can’t put my mind at peace. I know it is irrational but it is bothering me. -A