Following my milking thread, I want to ask everyone where they stand on accidental or unpermitted orgasms.
But first, a bit of backstory from my early days in the scene. Grab some cocoa, put on your slippers and get comfortable because Grandma Cruel is going to tell you a tale…;-)
About 5 or 6 years ago, I was controlling an online submissive. We had been together for nearly a year by then and felt we could trust each other. So we agreed to meet for coffee; he traveled to my town of course. Things went smoothly. After the meeting, we kept emailing and arranged another fun encounter. He booked us a hotel room in the city near me.
Four weeks before our date, I instructed him to lock on his CB3000 with points of intrigue. A plastic numbered padlock was used, and he sent photo evidence every day. When the big day arrived, he was still locked in and appeared chaste. I don’t think many submissives could orgasm while wearing those points.
I handcuffed him to the handles of the bedside cabinets on either side of the bed (note to self: Travelodge beds aren’t very handcuff friendly!). He was also gagged. After explaining that under no circumstances should he cum, I removed his device. Next, I used my bullet vibe on the head of his penis and began stroking him slowly, gradually speeding up.
Unfortunately for me, I was still a bit inexperienced at edging. All of a sudden, I heard muffled screams coming from his gag. He started to ejaculate; I quickly ruined it. Needless to say, I was not happy.
So, who is at fault here?
- Me for pushing him too far?
- Him for disobeying my orders?
- Me for gagging him? After all, if I hadn’t gagged him, he could have told me to stop in theory?
- Him for not controlling himself? Surely every submissive should maintain a good degree of control?
I am interested to hear your thoughts, regardless of whether you are a Domme or a sub. Mistress Cruel x