Starting to dive into chastity play. Purchased a Dicklock and quickly realized that I am much larger than the large size. This shouldn’t have been surprising since I’m a big guy who gets custom shoes and wears knit fingerless gloves. Consequently, I opted for the Birdlock Maxi instead. Once I managed to get it on—which was quite a task as my boys are sturdy—it didn’t stay put. Besides being large, I also deal with significant health issues, including high adrenaline levels that cause my members to pull up sharply. Additionally, because I take ED medication, my size doesn’t decrease rapidly after tease and denial sessions. This means I need extra room not just for the tube but also for my bulk. Regarding ring size while hard, a smaller one might still feel comfortable if it fits on properly. A belt isn’t suitable for me. While I appreciated the idea of soft material offering safety by allowing easy removal in an emergency (especially given my health issues and potential ER visits), if things work out well, I’m fine with a metal cage too. However, since I am allergic to nickel found in stainless steel, that could be a concern. Given my size is such a factor, I likely do need a metal cage.
So what should I consider for the next step to find a working cage?