Hi everyone, I recently arrived at this site looking for reviews of the cb6000 small. I know the cb series well since we owned a cb2000 back in the day, which I’ll mention later on. My goal is to use this thread as an ongoing journal and hopefully get some feedback and support along the way. So where do we begin…? I’m Mark, and my wife’s name is Kristy. We’ve been married for nearly 13 years and have been together for 15 in total. Kristy is truly the best thing that has ever happened to me. Unlike many other honest couples, we’ve had our share of issues, most of which were my doing online. I used to chat with other girls and mess around digitally. It’s a bit different from some couples because Kristy never really got upset about those things; what hurt her more was that I wasn’t fully honest about it all. Looking back, I know I was wrong, and I wish I had been truthful earlier. That’s enough of the backstory since it doesn’t impact our current situation much. Fast forward a few years to 2003-2004. I’m in the Army and deployed to Iraq. The idea of chastity crossed my mind some time before, but I lacked the courage to bring it up. It seemed easier over the phone or online initially. Eventually, I did propose the concept, and Kristy bought and shipped me a cb2000. I’m not entirely sure if she did it for my benefit or because she genuinely liked the idea—I’ll have to ask her about that later. Back then, overseas, I was excited about wearing a chastity belt. My wife and I used to enjoy phone sex, which became a topic of conversation between us. I tried wearing the cb2000 but never kept it on for more than just a few days at most because the base rings caused burning sensations. I attempted every possible combination without success.
Once again, fast forward about a year ago. My wife and I were living apart due to her job. The chastity lifestyle crossed my mind once more. This time around, I spent some quality reading and doing my homework. I even bought Sara Jameson’s book Be Careful What You Wish For. After reading it twice, I presented it to my wife a few days later (side note: it’s quite an awkward conversation to have). My wife has always told me that when she is angry with me, honesty is the best policy. So, I took a leap of faith and expressed my desire directly. To my surprise, she was very interested—or at least appeared so—perhaps partly because it mattered to me. We discussed it for several days, but I started getting cold feet. It never feels quite right after you orgasm. From experience, though, I believe chastity combined with long-term orgasm denial would be a wonderful gift to give my wife. Honestly, and it pains me to admit this, I was still caught up in the fantasy aspect during that time.
This brings us to today. Back in January, I started reconsidering things carefully. I decided to keep quiet until I knew for certain I could mean it when asking my Wife one final time. In February, I ordered the cb6000s with the ksdg3. (Side note: At least for me, the ksdg3 didn’t prevent pullout.) After reading extensively about both the 6000 and the 6000s models, and pondering which would suit best, I decided to take a chance and go small. I am really glad I did. In my opinion, it’s easier to hide under clothing, and with past experience, snug fits better than loose. I made myself a promise that once the order was placed, there was no turning back. Before showing it off to my wife, I wore the belt on-and-off for a few days. I thought I had selected a good spacer/ring combination so She could take control easily. Initially, however, she didn’t show grand enthusiasm; in fact, she mentioned she wasn’t particularly interested. At first, I felt slightly upset and hurt. Then I realized something crucial: Number one, my fantasy of how everything would unfold hadn’t matched reality. Number two, given our history, how could I expect her to take it seriously or get excited? Can I really blame Her? No.
Well, it’s March now, and here I sit locked and denied for the very first time. I’ve been continuously locked throughout March, though my wife did unlock me on Saturday for an orgasm, which was lovely by the way. We visited a couple of sex shops looking for a new toy for her. It’s only fair that if I am experiencing fun (or hehe not having fun), she should enjoy twice as much. She picked out a medium-sized dildo/vib and two corsets (she looks amazing in both, by the way). When we got home on Saturday, we acted like teenagers with our new toy. Although I desperately wanted to be let out, part of me hoped She would tease me further. We had wonderful sex, and she thoroughly enjoyed her new plaything.
Afterward, She chose not to put the cb6000s back on me immediately. This is where I seek advice from women: After sex, I really don’t want even to think about being locked up again, let alone look at the belt or discuss it. Is this normal? Do people feel a bit embarrassed too? Eventually, I managed to put it back Sunday afternoon after hiking and fishing with friends.
What do you all recommend regarding putting the device back on post-sex, and who should initiate that process?
Today is my wife’s birthday. She spent her day at the spa while I stayed busy until evening. We went out for dinner together before returning home to eat and relax. Before leaving earlier, my wife put on a corset and wore it around town. This drove me absolutely nuts—she had such a devious smirk:). I was convinced that after dinner, we would end up in the bedroom together. And honestly, I really wanted to make love to her. Life rarely follows plans perfectly, doesn’t it? A friend of ours stopped by with my wife’s present and ended up staying late just chatting about various topics. About 45 minutes into their conversation, I had that sinking feeling—my evening was slipping away lol! Once the friend finally departed, my wife went to brush her teeth and prepare for bed. Thinking she might be tired (since she has an early start tomorrow), I held her close for a few minutes, which turned into us making love… sort of… She told me to fetch her new toy and use it on Her. While holding her, playing with her body, and eating her out until She had a beautiful orgasm, my wife occasionally played with my balls but never unlocked me. With a smile, she said not tonight!! I have wanted her more than ever.
Going into today, I knew the outcome could go either way. Being somewhat narcissistic, I tend to overanalyze results. But truthfully? I am on cloud nine; there is something magical about wanting what you cannot possess. In fact, I truly hope she makes me wait several weeks. We shall see.
Feel free to offer constructive criticism… just remember that while I can’t change the past, we are real people—not a professional domme and her boy toy slave.
