Introductions discussion

Hi there! I just picked up the 6000s and am wearing it right now to dial in my comfort before showing the keys to my wife. I’ve brought up male chastity with her a few times, and she seemed open to it rather than opposed. I got this on without telling her, so I’m hoping for a positive reaction. My main question is: what’s the best way to bring it up? Here’s my idea: keep wearing it secretly until bedtime, then give her a note saying that surrendering control really turns me on and that I dream about sharing that power with her every day. I’ll also mention how much I want tease and denial. Then I’ll hand over the key, pull down my pants to reveal the ‘gift,’ and offer her Sara Jamesons’ Tease and Denial book. Does this plan work? If not, what would you suggest? Also, once it’s locked on, how long should I test before deciding if the fit is truly right for me? Right now, I have the second-biggest ring with a smaller spacer. So far, my longest stretch has been 12 hours non-stop. Today’s goal is 24 hours, which feels great so far. Starting Tuesday morning, I’m aiming for a continuous 40-hour wear. After that duration passes, I feel confident I’ll know if the comfort level holds up. Appreciate all your advice!