Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I just want to say hello since this is my first time posting here. My wife and I started experimenting with chastity a few years back. To make a long story short, she’s mostly vanilla but enjoys some light S&M and liked how the cage affected me. Over the last couple of months, she decided she wanted me wearing the cb3k more frequently. I wore it for about six weeks without sex, and she really enjoyed the attention and sense of power it gave her. There was one minor issue: as I kept the cb3k on longer, my balls stretched out a bit, making it easier to pull free even at the smallest ring size that fit me. Although I didn’t take advantage often enough, I never felt completely secure. Knowing I could still masturbate if I really wanted to just didn’t feel quite right. Sometimes this leads me back into non-chastity habits because of it. I know you need a lot of willpower, but being male, my dick tends to rule my head, so I need to feel that escaping is difficult without taking drastic steps. We discussed the problem at length and presented her with a solution. I have to explain things like this to her since she’s quite vanilla and wouldn’t naturally look it up herself. The good news is she listens well, takes what I say seriously, and sees the benefits of chastity. I was honest about being able to pull out and told her that if we were going for a 24/7 lifestyle, we needed something more permanent. Full belts weren’t an option due to medical reasons, so I suggested getting a PA piercing once healed would keep me properly secure and prevent masturbation unless she let me out. She loved the idea and plans to buy a mature metal device when our budget allows. Now she really wants me locked up tightly around the clock. I went ahead and got the PA done today! The main reason I’m sharing this is how painless it was, and I’d recommend it to anyone. I went into a small room at a well-regarded tattoo/piercing shop that I know has good reviews. Having never had any piercings or tattoos before, I was worried it would be extremely painful. Was I surprised! First, the lady put a cotton bud up my urethra to numb the inside; it felt a bit odd but wasn’t hurtful. Once numbed, she did an inside-out piercing. Because of the anesthesia, I didn’t feel the tube or needle going through my pee hole. When everything was ready, the piercer asked if I was set, and after a slight scratch, it was done. It hurt less than getting a shot at the doctor’s office. She clearly knew what she was doing. After she finished, I just asked, “Is that all?” Still expecting some soul-crushing pain! But no, it was over quickly with almost no pain. Now comes the hard work of keeping it clean for the next few weeks and dealing with some discomfort while healing. There was a bit of blood, and there will likely be more for a few days, but nothing to worry about. I now have a full ring on and am eager to see how it heals. Also, I’m not circumcised; as long as you can pull the foreskin back without trouble, you’ll be fine.