Hi everyone. Mistress Pandora (the one who owns me) is interested in incorporating chastity play into our dynamic, and I am open to it! I originally purchased a ‘Brutal-cage’ device which she locked me into. Although I wore it for several days, the single cock-ring included with the device is too small for my size. This has led to chafing and soreness in my scrotum area. Despite that issue, we found the short-term reality of male chastity (about 4-5 days) to be a positive experience that we want to keep going. Mistress Pandora and I don’t have a strict 24/7 D/s dynamic; when we aren’t playing roles, she reverts to being my girlfriend. We’ve agreed that chastity play can exist outside our formal D/s sessions—using it during those times but also as a longer-term, everyday part of our more ‘vanilla’ relationship. I am considering buying a replacement device with various sized cock-rings for a better fit, though I have some concerns about long-term use. My main worry is scrotal swelling. While wearing the Brutal cage, my sac did swell up. It wasn’t painful, just noticeably larger than usual. Even after taking off the cage, it remained big for several hours. I feel this isn’t quite right and am concerned about potential negative health effects. Also, Mistress Pandora enjoys giving me CBT and has recently bought a parachute harness ball-stretcher for use on me. She felt it was inappropriate to use the stretcher while my sac was so enlarged because she doesn’t want her ‘property’ damaged.
I initially thought the swelling was due to the cock-ring being too tight, but looking at profile pictures of other members here, it seems others who are locked up experience similar scrotal expansion. If a new device is properly fitted, will my ball-sac stay (more or less) its normal size? Or is some degree of swelling just part and parcel of long-term chastity play that I’ll have to accept if I buy the new device?