Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I’ve grown used to spending the night in chastity without any trouble sleeping, but this current period feels a bit different. KH denied me for seven days, then unlocked me before locking me back into my cage. Typically, denial and wearing the cage go together. We’ve had a long quarantine week with our three teenagers, so sleep has been scarce while staying up late for some “alone time.” Last night we put everyone to bed (in their own rooms) early so we could catch up on rest. The day wrapped up with the required massage, but I also got to stand beside her at the edge of the bed and give pleasure using her Hitachi device. She always says yes when I ask permission to sleep next to her—I love that she enjoys having me beg—but this time I was fully alert instead of drifting off as usual while rubbing her legs until she dozed off, which is how mandatory massages usually end. Last night though, I stayed wide awake and whenever I finally did nod off, every erection woke me up (like walking it away). It’s tough to fall back asleep then. Any advice or shared experiences?