It might sound repetitive, but we were discussing how my own chastity setup aims for me to be essentially willingly impotent—excluding the occasional locked erection. I’m not truly impotent, yet wearing a very short cage and being denied erections makes it work almost identically. Sex involves me donning a strap-on with my wife while she treats me as though nothing functional is down there, acting as my keyholder. Being locked up doesn’t trigger an erection for me.
This led us to consider how one could remain kept in chastity and denied erections until age and time eventually bring about impotence or start the process. That’s when we saw that even if I were already impotent or became so, I’d still keep wearing the short cage because of what it represents. For my keyholder, this device stands for our BDSM dynamic and my commitment to her as a queer woman to live without a functioning penis, regardless of whether an erection is possible. In a trans relationship or similar setup, I picture that piece representing something more than just a physical restraint. Is anyone else wearing theirs—or would wear it—for its look or meaning rather than purely for its role as a chastity tool?