We are now at day 17 of our current lockup, but what matters most is that my spare key is secured in a tamper-evident container and we are developing an FLR agreement. Before diving into those details, it’s worth noting this latest phase follows about a month off the previous one because I removed my cage without permission due to a misunderstanding regarding our rules. Because of that incident, we have tightened up and clarified our guidelines. The tamper-evident container for the keys means I am less likely to be tempted to take it off briefly without asking.
To me, this feels like a major milestone because it truly places my girlfriend in charge of deciding when or if my cock is released. It is thrilling to feel that she has so much more control here, and hopefully, it also boosts her confidence knowing that what she wants gets done even when we are apart.
I did make a slip once while cleaning in the shower; I enjoyed myself briefly but realized it was a mistake. Even though it wasn’t long, my girlfriend felt punishment was necessary. Since we were currently living separately, she chose writing lines as the most suitable penalty from the options I gave. It wasn’t fun of course, but I was really happy that she felt empowered to dispense discipline and hope this encourages her to continue doing so if I disappoint or disobey in the future, helping me learn without repeating errors.
We are also finalizing an FLR agreement. We haven’t fixed a specific duration yet, probably aiming for between one-and-a-half to three months—long enough to give it a fair trial but short enough to assess its fit for us. I believe this structure will help reduce friction and likely support her continued growth in confidence across our lifestyle. Her progress so far has been absolutely wonderful.
Our current main challenge is making the ‘magic locker’ style key attractive enough for her daily wear. We are experimenting with pairing it with some nice keys from eBay, but that part is still a work in progress. Hopefully, once completed, I will be able to share photos of the result on this blog.
Overall, I am very pleased with how things have progressed since we restarted, and I hope my girlfriend finds it as rewarding and enjoyable as I do. Look forward to sharing more updates here over the coming months and years.