Based on my experience and reading others’ stories, there seems to be a moment when women have an epiphany while experimenting with chastity as they realize its power and the benefits it brings. For us, we played around for ages but she didn’t fully seize that power. I think she got frustrated because cages often caused issues—they had to come off or just fell down. But once I secured a PA and healed enough to wear the Lori tube, she wears the key every day without letting it out of her sight. She has become more demanding about what she wants and only unlocks if SHE desires PIV. So when did your KH have that mind shift and seriously take control? I’d love to hear your stories!
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I would say my wife got into it very quickly, like a duck to water. But it took her some time to really take control because she felt bad about inconveniencing me so much with the device. Once she got over that hesitation, I haven't been out of lock-up very often. The PA she had me get for security definitely made things more real. So I guess for her, it was just once she realized I enjoyed her being stricter that she stopped feeling guilty about not wanting me free.
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