Introductions discussion

Hi everyone! I’m a 27-year-old American guy from New York, and my fiancée is 25. I’ve recently gotten into the idea of delaying orgasm and loving that feeling of fullness. I did some digging and discovered this wonderful community where people really get it! Happy to be here. Anyway, I’ve been telling my fiancé that I’d like her to deny me occasionally. Play with me, but make me wait. Let’s get all heated up—maybe even have me go down on her—but don’t return the favor right away. We had a dinner date planned after a long work week, and before we left she actually did just that! She said it felt good telling me no while seeing how much I wanted her. Now I want to ask you all: How do I take things up another notch? Is there a way to bring up the topic of a chastity device or real denial over several days, mixing in some teasing along with it? Will most women cringe at this, viewing it as a sign of weakness rather than something arousing for them? I’ve read about the pros and cons for both sides, but initially, how can I make it sound more appealing?