Greetings to all the key holders and men in cages, I’m about to secure my husband back into his jailbird cage tonight. I really look forward to it since we both enjoy this dynamic. But as he often points out, great power comes with great responsibility… which for us also means keeping that sexual spark alive. I need some inspiration on how to keep him content during the lock period. From what I’ve seen, his sexual energy stays (almost) constantly switched on because of the cage device being worn non-stop. Meanwhile, I’m not always thinking about sex or his needs in a steady way. My focus is usually split between work, kids, household chores, and other necessary but mundane tasks. It’s not that I forget he has the cage; it’s more that I don’t stay fully immersed in the sexual mood/communication style needed to properly attend to him (as much as I’d like). Sometimes I’ve sent messages in the past that killed his mood instead of boosting it… How do other Key Holders handle this, or do any locked men have tips on bridging this gap? Thanks a bunch…
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