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A brand new journey. I serve as the Keeper of The Bear. I’m a bi, 23-year-old wife and mother who has been submissive to her husband for more than four years; recently, our roles flipped quite naturally. It feels like it happened overnight. We are both switches, but we hadn’t really leaned into that dynamic until now. From the start of our relationship, I knew I was the sub/slave and he was the Dom/Master, and we were perfectly happy with that arrangement. Through conversations and exploring each other’s interests, he discovered my history with women, how much I enjoy exchanging power with them, and how I usually end up on top. On a personal level, I’ve never been fond of labeling myself as a Domme, Mistress, or any other dominant title you might throw at me. It just hasn’t felt right to me. I’m not particularly powerful, confident, or mean; I’m not the loudest voice in the room, and I don’t degrade others. Not all dominants are cut from the same cloth, and I’ve always found it difficult to identify with that group. But here is what I know about myself: I am a sadomasochist, deeply sensual, creative, and I love playing with and deceiving the senses. While these traits don’t automatically scream dominance, they are valuable tools for control. My creativity keeps my captive guessing about what’s next, which gives me the upper hand. Locking up my former Master is a wonderful gift that I cherish deeply. It will be interesting to see how his behavior changes, and I am excited for every step of this process! He has given me something unique—his submission—which he had never offered anyone before me. There is plenty of room for him to grow, but I look forward to teasing, denying, tormenting, punishing, and rewarding him. I hope my captive slave develops self-control and a deeper appreciation for his orgasms and the one who grants them. And since I know you are reading this, please remember that I love you and am impressed by you every single day!