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Hello everyone. I’ve just discovered and signed up for this site, so consider this part introduction and partly a request for guidance. I’m Jase from the UK. I am submissive and deeply into hypnosis, which has worked wonders for controlling my orgasm in previous times. A few years back, I found myself in quite a predicament. It centered around a dose of Viagra, an undersized cock ring, a visit to the Emergency Room, and even some help from firefighters. The outline should be familiar! Because of that incident, I’ve become a devoted secret wearer of chastity devices. I self-lock during work hours using my Holy Trainer, but must remove it when returning home because my boyfriend is strongly opposed to anything near his genitals being too close to mine. Apparently, this stems from a discussion he had with the surgeon who was threatening to surgically detach and then reattach my tackle. It really scared him, quite understandably! Does anyone have advice on how I might bring it up with him? Jason