Hello all, I’m fairly new here and, like some others, arrived from the site. I’m really enjoying this community so far. Thanks to Mistress Watchful and pet!
Chastity is a genuine interest of mine, and I’d love to dive deeper into this lifestyle. The problem is that my wife isn’t quite “into it” yet, though she tolerates me locking myself up from time to time. She’s mentioned that she appreciates the attention when I’m locked away but finds the thought of long-term cock confinement unbearable because she loves penetration so much. Usually, I lock up at night after work or on weekends, and my device comes off once I give her a massage and she feels in the mood.
I bought her the book “Chastity - A Keholders Guide” for Christmas to read, but it sits unopened. I’ve brought it up a few times, suggesting it would help her understand my mindset, but I suspect she’s afraid of what lies inside because, in her view, that level of kink is too much.
Here’s the concept I’m offering up for discussion: I need to shed 40-50 lbs., and while I’ve tried before, it hasn’t worked out. My wife is an EXCELLENT cook, which makes weight loss hard since she always has something delicious on offer. Perhaps her lack of support is partly excusable, though ultimately the effort should be mine, resisting those temptations.
So, I’m considering locking myself up and finding someone to hold the key (or hiding it away) so I can’t escape until I’ve dropped 10 lbs. Then, I’d have a few days unlocked before being locked again for another 10 lbs of loss. This would give me a strong incentive to lose weight while encouraging my wife to support me. During this period, she might discover that the lifestyle suits her after all. Do you think it’s healthy to nudge her into it more than what she currently desires? I’m sure if she truly objected, we’d unlock immediately. It feels like topping from the bottom a bit, but sometimes people try things they don’t expect and end up liking them.
I welcome everyone’s thoughts, good or bad!