Hi there!
An idea popped into my head this morning. A lot of guys on here don’t have intercourse with their key holder anymore, or it happens very seldom. That’s definitely one method to ensure the couple’s sexual life revolves around what pleases the woman… But not all couples (including us) are fully immersed in the chastity lifestyle. I personally enjoy having sex with my partner and she does too. The concept of mostly abstaining doesn’t appeal much to either of us. And I know others here have similar setups. So I was curious, how can we center a sexual life around female satisfaction while keeping it kinky, allowing for some intercourse and some time in the cage? I thought about proposing rules to my partner based on this idea, such as:
- If we have sex and Miss doesn’t reach an orgasm, Mr. gets locked up right away!
- It will take X of Miss’s orgasms to unlock Mr…
- If Miss achieves X manual orgasens then Mr earns something…
- If Miss has X oral orgasens then something else occurs, etc… The rules can be set in stone or flexible and as complex or simple as the couple prefers based on their tastes and limits of course… What do you think? Does anyone have a similar dynamic running?