I’m wondering if there are any married couples or partners where one person enjoys being kept in chastity while the other doesn’t share that interest. Do you know of any regular wives who think their husband is a bit nuts for having these kinks? Does she let you manage it yourself, or does it bother her? I realize people vary quite a bit; some enjoy this setup and others don’t. I’d love to hear from couples with different perspectives on how they deal with the situation.
My wife goes back and forth on the issue. Our libidos are very mismatched, so she appreciates it sometimes. Other times, she prefers not to get involved at all. It really hinges on what’s happening in our lives right now. During summer months, she tends to want less sexual involvement and control. However, when work slows down in winter and I stay home with the child acting as Mr Mom, she steps up nicely into her role as a dominant wife. Now that it is spring, she is distancing herself from what we call kinky activities. This leaves me feeling like I don’t want this to stop. So I asked if I could continue being chaste under my own conditions…Her response was simply: let me think about it.
