member_60f3eb5228 Newcomer Thread starter
I’ve had the cage on for seven weeks now and really enjoying it, but there’s a pattern I’m spotting: whenever my partner gets to let off steam or jack off while I stay shut, I get this wistful feeling—sometimes quite strong—and feel like quitting everything, removing the device, and joining in. It hasn’t happened yet though; I just have that sense of being near it. Still, I cherish the time we share locked up together and don’t mind waiting for my turn to finish too. How do you guys who are currently caged manage these emotions if they happen to you? Or has anyone else gone through them before? As a newcomer here, I’d be grateful to read your perspectives.
Cheers!