What's Next?

A few days back, my wife gave a sign that she was ready for some quality time. Since I’d been locked up for three weeks, I asked her if I should stay caged or come out. Her answer? “Out!” Her tone made it pretty obvious she wasn’t thrilled with me and my kink. So I decided to just clean up and enjoy the moment. The deal is supposed to be about having erections and sex for her, whenever she wants—though she hasn’t quite mastered that timing yet. We had used 28 of my 30-second fuse before she yelled “STOP”! With one second left, I asked, “What?” She repeated, “Stop now.” But it was too late; the time was up. A thought clicked in my head: why did she say STOP? She never really says that word. I froze perfectly still. I came hard, much like a normal orgasm but without those extra post-climax strokes that usually happen. That part felt a bit disappointing because I always look forward to them; they feel like the proper conclusion to everything. Looking at her, I asked, “Why stop? Are you alright?” She replied, “Isn’t that what I’m supposed to do? Lost in the moment and my head full of thoughts—was it finally my turn? Really??—I hesitated, glancing left and right as if someone might pop up to guide me on how not to mess this up. Finding no one there to help, “I said with my most humble voice, “Yes. It was perfect; I just wasn’t quite in control of myself like I should have been. Next time, I’ll try stopping at the first STOP.” She didn’t say anything back. We used her vibrator for her climax as usual, cleaned up, and went to sleep. The next day, I told her it was really fun and that I had enjoyed it a lot. But this whole “STOP” situation has my mind spinning. I desperately want to encourage her to do it more often but feel like I should just let things happen naturally. Any thoughts? I have at least two weeks before we try again.