Hi everyone, I’ve been wearing a Custom Chastity “Saint” for about three months now, with no release. As a non-circumcised grower, I’m pretty accustomed to the usual cage issues. It works well as a constant reminder of my fiancée’s control over me, even though we’ve been apart for several months.
For most growers like myself, night erections are the hardest part, and after all this time, I still haven’t found a perfect fix.
I deal with three main types of discomfort:
- Ball pull: This is common. For me, it’s mostly the pressure from the base ring pressing on my balls from both sides, which can be quite unbearable. Swapping to a tighter-fitting base ring helped significantly.
- Skin folding: My scrotal skin underneath is very loose, causing it bunch up under the base ring. These folds get pinched during erections, creating a burning feeling. Using silicone lube specifically on the underside of the scrotum helps rearrange the skin properly; if I just apply general lubrication, however, it can trigger pain #1.
- Inward pressure: Swelling behind the base ring pushes inward toward my lower body. It feels like a dull but persistent ache (like being hit in the nuts). Lying on your side in a fetal position helps relieve some of this pressure, though often just getting up to urinate and walking it off is more effective.
Initially, the pain kept me from sleeping because focusing on the cage was arousing, creating a cycle. That said, I don’t mind the erections themselves—they prove my functionality—and morning wood gets the day started; I’d just prefer less pain.
I’ve also played with the chastity device size. My penis usually touches all sides of the cage unless it shrivels completely. I managed to shorten the effective length by about two-thirds using tightly folded tissue paper, but that didn’t make much difference (yes, the “Saint” allows enough access, but you’re definitely not escaping anytime soon:evil:). Regardless, changing cages isn’t an option right now because there is absolutely no way this one comes off for at least another month.
Does anyone else experience these pains? What strategies work best for you?