As time passes, my wife appears to be getting more and more fond of having me locked up. She struggles a bit with discussing sexual matters openly. However, I’ve managed to get her to admit that she appreciates how the attention centers on her without the pressure for us to have intercourse.
We all know websites that promise feelings of power, husbands who keep the home pristine, and unlimited orgasms for women, among other perks. But I suspect much of this is just erotic fantasy. My wife isn’t an orgasm-obsessed sex demon simply because I’m in chastity. She certainly has them more often now since we aren’t having intercourse (which never really worked as a way for her to climax) and she feels significantly more relaxed with me locked up. Yet, she doesn’t constantly demand orgasms from me. Our sexual dynamic remains largely driven by my needs; I am still the main initiator and remain dominant in bed, which is exactly how she likes it. While she won’t fully open up about it, I believe she enjoys knowing that all my male drive and desire are directed at her rather than being used for self-gratification. This unselfish focus makes her feel cherished.
So, from the perspective of a keyholder, what do you enjoy most about keeping your man in chastity?