Tonight marks the moment my wife and I agreed that chastity should become a lasting part of our marriage. Since we began this journey, keeping me chaste has made our relationship much more peaceful. Whenever I am permitted to use my penis and reach an orgasm, things tend to fall apart.
We had a lengthy conversation about it. We both want the benefits, but I explained that she needs to be very supportive and encourage me on days when staying committed feels difficult. She must act as my cheerleader and keep me motivated. She said she is ready to help me stay focused.
We aren’t sure if this will last forever, but it will endure for a long time—likely several years at least.
I am excited about how our intimacy will develop, though I feel slightly nervous since I’m not entirely sure what giving up erections and orgasms completely will be like.