Hi all. I’ve been living without a cage since New Year’s Eve and loving it. The sex is fantastic, plus we’re sharing a more authentic connection that doesn’t rely on specific kinks or games. While I like wearing the device and she enjoys teasing me, the recent weeks have been particularly good.
We’ll likely return to regular play soon—perhaps this weekend—but for now, there’s no bulge to worry about, no anxiety over missing an orgasm, and less frustration from tease without release. The sexual dysfunction issues I used to get are gone at least temporarily. I’m not entirely sure if it’s related or coincidental, but I suspect it comes down to using the equipment or losing that benefit. It seems mostly mental for me.
I just wanted to share this with those of us who might get too absorbed in chastity life and play—it can be worth taking a break now and then to refresh your palate before diving back in.