Sometimes even the most carefully made plans go off track. My wife and I were halfway through a four-month period of orgasm denial when she fell ill, remaining sick for two weeks now. As senior citizens, we experience health issues regularly. She mentioned that I could unlock until her recovery since she enjoys chastity not as punishment but rather for the delight it brings in teasing me. Regardless, we discussed how things would move forward once she recovers.
We generally agreed that long-term continuous chastity wasn’t suitable for us. Interruptions happened too often, and at our age, realism is key. We decided I’d be locked up about a month before specific special events rather than constantly. Additionally, I’ve dealt with recurring skin issues from wearing the device non-stop. This new setup allows my skin to heal between sessions while remaining flexible enough to accommodate any illnesses.
I thought we were on the same page until the first day she managed to get out of bed. She grabbed my crotch and asked why I wasn’t locked up yet.:) I realize I can be inconsistent with chastity, but that’s real life; unexpected things happen. Honestly, I’m unsure what to think. My wedding anniversary is at the end of October, and while I know she wants a month-long denial before then, it seems she now expects me to lock up this very month. I’ve been free for two weeks and enjoying it. No more fussing with peeing or adjusting my junk so I don’t sit on my balls. Also, wearing a cage always made me feel like I needed to urinate constantly.
I’m torn. I miss being perpetually horny. I barely look at porn anymore. I miss the repeated edging experience. On the flip side, I appreciate being device-free and able to cum whenever I wish. It’s been two years since I started wearing chastity devices this month, with only occasional weeks free in between. How often do you take breaks from chastity, if any, and how long before you start missing it?