Got my new Jailbird and its length matches my flaccid penis, which prevents erections. My wife has been discussing adding erection denial to my existing orgasm denial. Since we don’t have intercourse, she doesn’t really need my penis for that purpose. After 16 months in chastity, she feels edging and teasing are becoming too much like work for her. She prefers to just lie back without worrying about my penis so they can focus entirely on her pleasure. I enjoy the edging process, which is partly why she wants it stopped. Ruined orgasms are barely acceptable as part of our arrangement.
I haven’t seen many people do long-term erection denial. Is anyone doing it? My wife has decided on 3-4 orgasms a year instead of one per year. That works for me because I have gone three months before, and after the initial few weeks, it gets much easier. However, that was with two edging sessions weekly so I still got some pleasure. She is considering eliminating even that small amount of pleasure as a real possibility. I will find out later tonight if she plans to keep me locked up during sex all the time. Is anyone else denying erections alongside their chastity?