I know not everyone here is part of a D/s dynamic, but I feel like many of us love the chastity device itself and also enjoy the total control that comes with it. My Wife/Mistress and I began our journey into chastity roughly a year ago. We drafted up an agreement and actually had quite a bit of fun creating it. It handled the standard details: daily duties, punishments, limits, periods of denial, and so on.
About two months back, we chose to make this lifestyle permanent. I am locked almost constantly, except when work requires me to remove it because my job doesn’t permit keeping it in at all times. During our transition, Mistress mentioned she wasn’t happy that the contract placed restrictions on her. The more I considered it, the more I agreed: she shouldn’t be bound by anything. So we mutually decided (for real this time) to cancel the agreement. It was a significant moment when I knelt in the bedroom and she tore up the paper right before my eyes.
Now, I have to place 100% trust in her. The limits haven’t vanished; it’s just that I must fully believe she knows what is best for me. Some might disagree with this approach, but we even removed our safe word. She understands when enough is too much and has taken my last remaining form of external control.