My spouse abandoned the practice of male chastity

I cannot go from being the Queen to being a highly educated servant that gets credit for no intelligenge and has no accomplishments. I cannot return to the way it was. Has anyone experienced this? He says I am too serious about it, I think I am assertive. If I am to be dominate I must assert my opinions. It is really sad. Either I am not his ideal key holder or he doesn’t like chastity anymore.