How did you find your attraction to orgasm denial?

I became instantly interested in chastity when I first learned about it on Reddit. A couple of years back, there was a post on r/IAmA where a man who had been locked up discussed his relationship with the person holding his key in great detail. Before that, I hadn’t heard much about denying orgasm and wasn’t particularly into kinkiness at all, but something really resonated with me when reading how he described the sexual frustration of being kept in chastity. Since then, I’ve been fascinated by the concept. If I hadn’t come across that thread a few years ago, I probably wouldn’t be wearing a cage right now.:) So how did you all find this kink? I suspect one reason why it remains such an uncommon fetish is because most people are simply unaware of it. Had someone just told me, “some men like to keep their penises in chastity cages for long stretches so they can’t get erect,” I would have thought that sounded foolish. To truly understand the appeal, you really need a more detailed explanation. That’s my view at least.