Keeping Quiet or Showing Off?

“Forgive me if this topic has been covered, but I have been thinking about a paradox at least as it pertains to my experience so far with chastity. For me the attraction to chastity is the psychological excitement that comes from being submissive to my KH/wife. I would derive no pleasure from chastity by being my own KH. As a result, I also am turned on by the possibility someone might find out or strongly suspect she is controlling me. Therefore, I would love if she would wear the key on an anklet. A public display of her control of me would be an incredible thrill. She on the other hand would never do this because she would be embarrassed and very uncomfortable. I also have selected a cd that won’t show when dressed. I have a cb6ks which is very discrete. I obviously can’t walk around with my locked up dick hanging out so there is no way for any one to know. I guess it will just have to be a fantasy in the back of my mind, but have others thought about this as well? Do any of you who have kh’s that don’t mind wearing the ket? Has anyone ever figured out that you KH controls you? In my fantasy, I particularly want women to find out. It would be awesome to find out my control was a part of their gossip!”