I’ve been reading through these discussions and I might have overlooked it, but there isn’t much conversation about men staying locked up for reasons beyond female domination or similar dynamics. I’m happily engaged to a great woman, and our sexual life involves toys—some are standard, while others push the boundaries in my view. However, frequency has dropped off, and I’ve developed a habit of frequent masturbation (which seems typical for guys based on what I read) that feels detrimental to our relationship. Deciding it was time for action, I explored various options. While searching, this site appeared among those discussing male chastity devices. It prompted me to investigate the different types available and narrow down my choice. After reviewing several designs, I determined metal would be best and purchased an Impaler Tube. I got it last Thursday evening after dinner. When I showed it to my fiancée by opening the package at home, she was unenthusiastic but willing to give it a try. Wearing it felt interestingly erotic simultaneously. Being someone who jumps into new experiences headfirst, I did so here too. I kept it on that night without major issues and was pleasantly surprised. The next day, I wore it to work, wondering if colleagues would spot the slightly larger bulge in my trousers. Apart from some occasional pulling and pinching, it went quite well. Occasional lubrication and adjustments helped me find a comfortable position, marking the start of my journey. Friday night brought fewer issues than the previous evening, and I was pleased with the progress. Saturday required its removal for an event, but I resumed lockup upon returning home. Sunday passed without significant problems as I managed household tasks and errands. Keeping it secret from the kids while they were around proved somewhat challenging, yet everything worked out fine. I enjoyed this new venture, and my fiancée seemed to grow fond of holding the key that controls her source of sexual pleasure.
Next, I had to decide what to do with the spare keys. The lock included three keys total. I needed a storage solution where they weren’t too easy for me to access (avoiding temptation) but reachable in an emergency. I chose to hide one inside the house at the attic’s farthest point from the entrance door. For the third key, I wanted it stored at work but wasn’t sure how. Eventually, I decided to ask a female coworker to hold it, though I pondered the method of doing so. Today, I opted to give the office receptionist the task since she is the only single woman there and happens to be open-minded about life’s nuances. My hesitation was regarding what explanation to provide if questioned about its purpose. I resolved to share details freely but expected her to possess sufficient curiosity and openness for my answer.
So, around mid-morning today, during a conversation at her desk, I simply asked if she could hold onto an extra padlock key for me. Without hesitation, she agreed readily without asking what it was for. She noted it was just a small key, and we moved on to other topics. Thus, I avoided broaching the subject directly yet. Although, I admit slight disappointment that I missed the opportunity to elaborate, as sharing that explanation is part of the erotic fantasy element I find so appealing.
Tonight marks my fifth full day in lockup. I am becoming accustomed to the device and look forward to many more days caged in metal. Additionally, milking has captured my interest because preventing masturbation was my primary motivation for starting this journey; thus, I am eager to try it. I own an Aneros massager and have used it before with modest results. I’ve explained to my fiancée that men need regular ejaculation and suggested she help me achieve release without orgasm using the device. She agreed to try it and appears increasingly accepting of this lifestyle change. Interestingly, today she made a passing remark about holding the key to my locked sexual tool.
Overall, I am satisfied with how things are progressing, though I realize I have only just begun. I am eager to continue.
As someone new to this practice, I surely have much to learn. I welcome any discussion, input, or advice you may offer.
