Staying Locked-Free in Chastity

Hello, I’m a new member here. Regarding my wife and me (referencing the Uxorious thread): past experience shows that while I’ve worn devices, the concept is thrilling, but daily life with them can be bothersome and dull. Lately, I feel that just making a firm commitment works almost as well. I recall seeing another discussion on this subject some time back, though I haven’t been able to locate it again. My goal is total reliance on my beloved wife C for every bit of sexual satisfaction. I’ve resolved not to stroke my cock or other sensitive areas except when washing up, and I won’t even glance down at them unless C herself is doing so. Also, no porn (that’s a tough one:) ). All this without any hardware…it sounds difficult, and it is, but the reward for me is significant. I notice myself focusing much more sharply on C; my mind wanders to her often, imagining her lovely form, getting turned on with ease. She offers small provocations, sometimes fondling my cock during the day. Since this satisfaction comes only from her touch, it feels deeper and stronger. Intercourse is wonderful; knowing I’m inside her while feeling her body against mine brings great joy. And I savor this delight because I’ve given up self-pleasure; all my enjoyment now flows through C I truly love her.