Core Types of Sexual Teasing in Vanilla Dynamics

(I shared this on but didn’t get much of a response. I’m curious to hear your thoughts.) Have you ever heard the theory that fiction stories boil down to just seven fundamental plots? Recently, I’ve been pondering this… If we strip away all the extra embellishments that take Outdoorsy/Domination (OD) beyond purely vanilla territory, there are only five core types of teases left in my count, each with its own variants. While I’d love to hear if I missed any, as far as I can see, everything else is a variation on these five. Also… by assuming “vanilla,” I mean we exclude ANYTHING that might quickly end the session for most people: pain, humiliation, sissification, forced-bi, anal, cuckolding, etc… I’m only considering two people, some sort of Chastity Device, dildos or toys, and just light restraints regarding bondage.

1. Repeated edging: This is perhaps the most obvious. The man is brought to the edge numerous times without being allowed to cum. Obvious variations include whether he is restrained or not; edges can be caused by hand, mouth, or penetration. (Obviously, this could easily be done solo as well.) The archetypical video example of this, IMO, is ( … enial.html one is a close second)
2. Sensual tease: This differs from the first in that the male may never reach an edge, nor even be removed from his cage. He is merely kept aroused for an extended period. Obvious variations are similar to above: he could be restrained or not; stimulation can come via hand, mouth, or penetration and doesn’t have to target genitals directly; this works with or without the male remaining caged. The archetypical video example of this, IMO, is … omoid=1560. There’s no attempt to edge him, just enough sensation to really turn him on, and then stop.
3. Voyeuristic: Here, the male receives no stimulation himself but watches as the female brings herself to orgasm. She can do this with fingers, a toy or vibrator; he may be restrained or not, caged or not, but is not allowed to touch either himself or her. (This is another one commonly done solo: A caged man watching porn, for example.) The archetypical video example of this, IMO, is (OK - minus the domination talk, if you want to be a purist about it.)
4. Shared: This is similar to (3), except that the man helps bring about the female’s orgasm. He can use fingers, a toy, vibrator or oral – and possibly penetration without resulting in his own orgasm. (The difference between this and (1) is purpose: her pleasure versus his edging.) Videos of men bringing women to climax are too numerous to narrow down easily. And he could be caged or not.
5. Substitution: This occurs when the female brings herself to orgasm while using the male’s harness / dildo as a tool. It has elements of both (3) and (4), but is far more intimate. The man can be caged… on or off (THAT would be interesting!) and may be restrained (and on the bottom) or unrestrained, allowed to lead. The archetypical video example of this,’ IMO, is Finally, a while back I received an email from Sarah Jameson’s mailing list (which I subscribe to.) This describes a mind-blowing tease that seems like a mix of all categories. (Or at least I can’t figure out which single category fits best.) I can’t possibly do it justice in my own words, so I hope she doesn’t mind me quoting hers: you lie on your back, get him to kneel between your legs and then take hold of him and use his cock like a dildo, using it to caress yourself. This alone is enough to make his eyes pop out on stalks. For a bit of extra teasing, put your legs over his shoulders so they’re wide as can be. And then, when you are ready… you let him slide in just an inch or so and keep him there, motionless, while you slowly bring yourself to climax with your own fingers on your clitoris. Here’s the killer for him: when you cum, he feels your vagina pulsing around his cock… … and THAT sensation is enough to drive him nuts. Wow. (Right?) wipes brow So.. I’m curious… Before you start breaking taboos or making trips to the hardware store, can anyone suggest any fundamental teases that I might have missed? (BTW… In looking for those vids, because I didn’t have them bookmarked, I came … tease.html which seems to be a CAGED variant of what Ms. Jameson was describing.)