Told my oldest friend after a couple of drinks. Not in detail, just that I am into this and it is a thing my partner and I do. He said the right words at the time and he has been slightly off with me for three weeks. Shorter replies, did not come to a thing on Saturday he would normally come to.
I do not think he is going to tell anyone. I think he just does not know what to do with it. I feel stupid and I also feel annoyed that I feel stupid, because I have not done anything wrong.