Introductions discussion

Hello everyone, I need to start by saying how delighted I am to be on this site and getting to know you all… My fiancée, my Mistress, and I have just stepped into the world of chastity tonight. It’s something we’ve discussed for a good while now but has only recently become real. I’m thrilled about being under Her command, though I must admit that until now our relationship has been fairly standard. I prefer her to take charge in the bedroom, and I have a VERY strong liking for facesitting, queening, and ass-worship. My Mistress lets me indulge in these occasionally as a treat or when she wants things heated up quickly, but She doesn’t really enjoy them because She finds them boring. So I feel quite lucky when She allows it. But in our daily lives, we usually share the ‘power’ and responsibilities…well, perhaps She holds slightly more weight, but mostly we are equals. I don’t know exactly where this path will lead. My dream has always been for Her to hold the reins of power while I serve Her, but I have some concerns. For all I know, it might just be a fantasy that turns into a nightmare once reality sets in. I appreciate that as equals we can share ideas and correct each other—e.g., I can tell my Mistress when She is wrong about some DIY project—we won’t get bogged down in details here—but suffice to say, when I showed Her the evidence, She agreed with me. That’s something we can do as equals, but I worry that if I become a slave, it will be too one-sided and personally believe that path leads to ruin. My Mistress suggested we both wear something like rubber wristbands—a signal of whether we are in the mood for the Mistress & slave dynamic, because She doesn’t want full-time Dominant/submissive. This way, I can have days or weeks off to surprise Her and take charge occasionally. I’m okay with this since She enjoys me being rough with Her. BUT—I’m not sure…She was really keen on locking me in a cage and taking control…I guess I am just afraid of moving too fast and not ready for the reality. Any advice would be appreciated. I have wanted this moment, and my Mistress seemed very ‘excited’ about it, but I am nervous about what lies ahead and want to make sure both she and I find this experience gentle, easy, and secure. On a positive note, I’m glad I found this site because this isn’t exactly something I could discuss with my family. I stumbled upon the site after Googling ‘how uncomfortable is it to walk in a cockcage?’ and I am happy that I did! So, once again—hello to you all, have a lovely evening! Mistess’s_slave.