Hello everyone:
I’m not entirely new to the site, just fresh out of posting. For a while leading up to late August and early September, my wife (who holds the keys) and I had this sort of on-again, off-again chastity arrangement going. Usually, I’d be locked for about a week or three days, then released for a few weeks before locking back up again, repeating the cycle. Then, as if by magic, something seemed to “click” inside her, and I have been fully LOCKED—meaning 24/7 since September 9th.
Let me go back a bit further in time to give you the full picture…
Earlier this year, I bought a CB3000 and gave it to my wife. After some “play sessions” over weekends using it, she really took to male chastity well. She did a wonderful job as both key-holder and Domme. My wife is naturally suited for this role because of her Type A personality; she’s inherently controlling, while I am naturally submissive toward her.
I stayed locked and serving until March/beginning of April. During that period, it’s worth noting I was unemployed, so being in service to her was quite simple—cooking dinner, cleaning up, rubbing her feet and back after work hours. My wife and I don’t have the luxury where one partner can stay or work from home easily; we read a lot about people living this lifestyle while managing remote jobs or high success levels, but although successful ourselves financially speaking, we aren’t quite independent enough so both of us must keep working.
I mention all that because it sets up exactly what my question is asking:
So at the end of March I landed a job in marine repair which has since grown into running my own business doing similar things. Around mid-April though, my wife “stepped down” from her role within our FLR (Female Led Relationship), leaving me feeling somewhat lost ever since. Over recent weeks she experimented some with reasserting herself as superior but kind of let it go because I haven’t been able to do everything expected yet. One thing remaining constant since September is undisputed total control over my orgasm; there’s no doubt about this part—only she decides whether or not I may cum, period—if she says one year or three years or never again then that’s her call and I won’t argue it.
My query now: How do I get back to serving her properly? Or how can I encourage her embrace of the role once more like earlier this year? And also—how best should I present to her that unlike before when things were different, yes—I am currently active in the working world too? Lastly my service belongs primarily towards HER but MY BUSINESS serves ME so THAT income helps sustain us both bringing wealth TO QUEEN. Is there something wrong here though?? She takes offence at thinking she shouldn’t get involved directly WITHIN my repair work BUT only reason being SHE works hard enough already outside WITHOUT taking responsibility FOR MINE AS WELL.
I tried explaining that her dominance starts around 5:30 PM onwards plus weekends otherwise during daytime hours I’m busy doing MY OWN JOB. Or am mistaken here? If yes please enlighten me on my errors so I can correct them too! Looking forward to hearing input from Celtic queens among others! Thank you.