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The First Day Hey everyone, The Curve I ordered arrived yesterday, as mentioned elsewhere. The fun is officially underway… To start with a bit about me: I’ve been pretty standard until now; this is my first real attempt at kink, and so far I’m just wishing I’d started sooner! That said, my previous partners were fairly conventional, so I doubt anything would have happened even if I had tried. But now, my GF is as enthusiastic about it as I am, so lots of fun lies ahead! I can’t quite pinpoint what draws me to chastity; it turns me on without a clear reason. But I’m not going to psychoanalyze myself here or anywhere else. After chatting with my GF, we decided to go for it and get a device. I did some research and settled on the Curve, which seemed like a good fit size-wise. Fast forward to yesterday: The package arrived at her workplace (parcels sent to our home address often end up here because I work just down the road, and the postie knows this - pretty handy, though parcels occasionally get opened by the boss there; I wasn’t going to risk it!). She spent most of the afternoon sending me pics of ‘the box’. (Un?)fortunately for me, she seems as excited about this as I am, coming up with all sorts of ways to tease and enjoy herself through this - naturally, she won’t reveal her plans yet! We finally both got home and opened the box. After a few minutes playing around with it, she told me to strip so we could fit it. I have to admit to hesitating slightly there—it had been a fun fantasy up until then, but here was the device, about to be locked around my cock! But I stripped off and got the ring on (largest size to start), then after some patience (I was quite aroused), some lube, and a bit of poking, the cage went on, followed by the padlock. Done!:Locker: With not much else to do except take photos, I got dressed and tried to get used to it. It’s more comfortable than I expected; I was pleasantly surprised. After she went to bed, I stripped off again and played around a bit. I discovered that I could pull out, but going down a ring size and switching to the smallest spacer pretty much fixed that (I can still pull out—just—but getting back in is impossible. Not worth the hassle!). Satisfied, I went to bed—I did consider wearing it overnight, but I had an important sales meeting the next day and couldn’t afford a bad night’s sleep. So I took it off. The next morning, I wasn’t planning to wear it—like I said, I had that very important meeting and didn’t want clients remembering me as ‘that weird guy who kept playing with himself all day’—but I figured I had the whole morning to try it (the meeting wasn’t until afternoon), so why not. I put it on, got dressed, and went to work. My first public outing wearing my little secret! As it turned out, I was quite comfortable again and decided to keep it on all day. I’ve now worn it for 15 hours with no issues. Result! I’ll wear it to bed tonight to see how it goes, but I think I’ll be okay. We agreed that once I can go 48 straight hours without problems, I’ll hand over the key—then the real fun begins! I think that will likely happen this weekend, barring any hiccups.