Hello everyone. I’m Miss J. Although I’ve only recently joined CM, I have plenty of experience with chastity. My partner and I have been experimenting with it for a few years now and really enjoy the dynamic! The other day, my husband suddenly presented me with both a book and a chastity cage, asking if I’d be willing to use them to enhance our relationship. To say I was surprised is an understatement; I felt quite taken aback at first. However, after he outlined how it could benefit us both, I wasn’t opposed to the idea. I began reading his recommendation and found it really engaging. We took a gradual approach initially, but things didn’t go exactly as he hoped—he kept wanting frequent sex while I was in device—and we started bickering over that.
After taking some time off from wearing it, I gathered more guidance and realized what my role actually entailed: consistent denial without giving in! Let’s just say he ended up getting much more than he originally expected once I got the hang of things lol. Every aspect of our connection is now wonderful, largely thanks to that little device. I’m not going completely extreme right now, but I’ve definitely become kinkier during intimate moments by exploring new activities like strapon play, spanking, and milking—things I’d never even considered before. If he behaves well, I do permit a weekly release; otherwise, poor guy suffers lol. Small panties, butt plugs come to mind immediately, and sometimes I make him watch me enjoy myself in porn while sitting right beside me.
That’s pretty much my story! I’m excited about sharing more of our experiences here, reading others’ posts, and perhaps offering some advice along the way.
