I am new to all of this. I have wanted to do it for a long time. Two weeks ago, I ordered “The Curve” as the extra length was what I needed. It arrived last week, and over the past seven days, I have been figuring out the right ring and spacer sizes while getting used to wearing it. As a single man, I am about an hour away from handing my keys over to a straight male friend of mine. He knows exactly what the key is for with the chastity device I’m wearing. Yes, he understands that he needs to wear the device himself to help control a masturbation and porn habit that has taken over my life, leaving me with little free time.
When I first asked him if he would keep the keys for me, he took four days to think about it because he saw it as a significant decision.
My chastity setup is working very well, and I am quite happy. I am using the smallest ring; it fits tightly but perfectly. I have slept in it for four nights without any issues. It essentially prevents anything from moving up or down along the shaft, making escape impossible.
The only thing bugging me is that the hinge on the ring causes some pain because it pinches the back of my scrotum at night, mostly during nocturnal erections. I imagine I will get used to that.