Encouraging Her to Tease More

During our early experiments, I requested that my wife edge me before letting an orgasm escape. She complied, but afterward made it clear she wasn’t fond of edging, finding it either ‘too planned,’ ‘not romantic,’ or something else she couldn quite put into words. I am now pushing past two weeks in the lock and craving more attention. However, most of what she does is brief and focused above my waist. She adjusts my nipples, rubs my chest, and this morning even cupped my testicles as she headed out to work. In return, I offer everything from passionate kisses and foot massages to hugs, cuddles, and satisfying her sexual needs whenever and however she allows it. Ultimately, I desire more attention and for her to spend time teasing me, yet she seems to hold back, perhaps so I don’t get too wound up or become difficult. Throughout this experiment, my mantra is ‘you’re in charge, you decide.’ She isn’t entirely comfortable with this role but has begun to embrace it gradually. Perhaps she enjoys the art of the tease more than I realize, giving me just enough stimulation to keep me interested and on edge. I am seeking real-world advice on how others have handled this without ‘topping from the bottom,’ allowing her to maintain control over decisions while still addressing my needs. I know I need to help guide her toward what I want (especially early on), and communication is key, but I don’t want to break anything or step on any landmines. Any thoughts?