I serve as the Keyholder for my very kinky husband, who calls himself Mistress A Slave. I’ve always been willing to explore new experiences in our bedroom life, though I didn’t have a particular fantasy or fetish of my own before. He, however, has long harbored numerous fantasies and desires he wanted to act upon. During our first year together as spouses, we discussed male chastity on several occasions and resolved to test it out.
Because he can be somewhat controlling in everyday life, his initial attempt felt like he was pushing too hard and being overly demanding. We stuck with it for just over a month, but I worried that constantly “punishing” him and acting “mean” would change me into someone unrecognizable, causing us to lose respect for one another.
I struggled to grasp how taking the dominant role in bed actually provided him the release he craved. I failed to realize that chastity involves much more than simply wearing a key around my neck. Consequently, we stopped before truly giving it a chance.
Recently, however, we revisited the topic, and I resolved to learn more about it myself. I began experimenting slightly while following established guidelines to see what benefits we could extract. After a month of trial, my perspective shifted entirely; I feel as though I have been dominant all along but just hadn’t noticed. We are now back in a full Female-Led Relationship (FLR), and I derive immense satisfaction from directing my husband’s actions whenever and however I please, which brings joy to both of us. It has been an enjoyable adventure having a devoted servant ready to meet my demands at any time or place. Our bond is closer and more intimate than ever before.
I’ll share more delightful details with you all later.;);) -Mistress A