I realize that chastity is one of those subjects most people keep to themselves in public. It seems like such a distinct, more psychological kink compared to what others are accustomed to that nobody wants to admit they enjoy it. The thing is, I’ve worked in the restaurant industry for 15 years now. Nearly every single day in my kitchen, we exchange sex jokes, dick jokes, bedroom war stories, and mention or discuss every strange and sexually unconventional topic.
Just today, we were talking about people with trampling fetishes and pony play. We laughed our heads off, wondering what on earth leads someone to that. Some admit to trying things, having a partner who wanted it, and even rarely admitting to enjoying it. My thinking is: if a few consenting adults want to get together, have fun, and aren’t hurting or forcing anyone into it, then who cares? Have a blast, more power to you for being open-minded. So in all these years of strange, slightly depraved conversation, male chastity has never once come up.
Hell, they would probably be blown away that I—their great chef and leader, the guy who makes servers scream, intern cooks cry (and drop out of culinary school), and can break down a pig with a cleaver and boning knife in minutes—have my cock locked right in front of them. Honestly, I’m a big guy at 6’5” and 250 pounds, playing the role of alpha male quite well. However, you get me into the bedroom with my wife present, and whatever she says goes. Of course, I would never admit it to others, or is it any of their business what my wife and I do?
So that just makes me wonder: Who else out there is like this? How many guys are into this? Just how many units have companies like CB-X sold? Hundreds, thousands, but probably not a million though? You can get anyone to admit to going into a sex shop, but ask them what they bought and you’ll likely hear about some lotion or a “gag gift” purchased for a bridal shower. I guess it’s me trying to make myself feel normal by telling myself that it can’t be that strange. Then again, who wants to be normal anyway.