Our CB6ks arrived Saturday morning, and my girlfriend and I hurried to the bedroom to give it a try. Since then, I have been locked around the clock, except for taking a break to swap the ring from the biggest size down one notch smaller and having a shower. We washed up together; she got really thrilled, and we ended up having intercourse in the water, with me climaxing as well. Afterward, the cage was put right back on immediately and has stayed there ever since.
The girlfriend is absolutely delighted by it all, giggling and smiling when she reflects on it, but for me, the actual experience feels a bit dull perhaps. Maybe the anticipation before starting felt so intense that actually living with this uncomfortable, irritating piece of plastic around my member (like needing to sit every time I pee or no longer being able to sleep prone) was bound to be disappointing.
After getting little rest last night, she offered to remove it before my work shift if I wished. When I asked whether leaving it on would make her happier, she said “Yes!”, so I kept it on and am spending my first day at the office while locked up. I hoped that the ‘naughty’ feeling of wearing it in public might provide some excitement, but even that thrill is missing.
Has anyone else felt this way when starting out? Does sexual frustration accumulate over time to help? Any advice to make the initial adjustment period more enjoyable?