any variation in frustration levels between the first week and two weeks of being locked up

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Hello everyone! I'm a new member here and also fairly fresh to the world of chastity. My girlfriend and I have been experimenting with it intermittently for around six months, and we're planning to take things up a notch once my first device arrives in just a few days.
Typically, she allows me to release every four or five days, but now that I'll be wearing the lock, she wants to significantly extend those intervals. Naturally, since neither of us is an expert at prolonged orgasm denial yet, we'd prefer not to jump straight into deep water without some proper conditioning. It's likely we'll start with shorter locked periods.
My question is: does frustration level change noticeably after a week? Will I feel considerably more restless and eager around day 14 compared to day 7?

member_4e3795d05d · Answer

I can share my own pattern (or 'cycle' as it's often called here). Being 47 means age plays a part, and yours will likely differ. The initial cycles are the most intense. Once you figure out your rhythm, accepting what your body is doing makes the mental side easier.

First 2-3 days: flat on the floor.
By the end of week one: I'm quite 'juiced'.
The next week brings growing horniness that peaks again around day 15. (Precum leakage begins then too.)
The following week gets even hotter, with total obsession over denial until it peaks between days 22-24. There are a couple of days where you have to watch yourself because I get snappy.
After that point, I'm cooler than Fonzie, constantly around 75% juiced. Occasionally there are days when I'd cum if I didn't hold back until about week 10, and then it happens anyway.

any variation in frustration levels between the first week and two weeks of being locked up

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